Preached May 9, 1999 at Faith Baptist Church
By Pastor Steven E. Mays


"A Way That Seemed Right"

Proverbs 16:25

Proverbs 16:25 There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

Proverbs 21:2 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the LORD pondereth the hearts.

Proverbs 16:2 All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but the LORD weigheth the spirits.

Luke 18:11 The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican.
12 I fast twice in the week, I give tithes of all that I possess.

Proverbs 20:6 Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find?

Proverbs 30:12 There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness.

Psalms 36:2 For he flattereth himself in his own eyes, until his iniquity be found to be hateful.

Galatians 6:3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself.

James 1:22 But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.

I. A Way of Raising Your Kids

Proverbs 16:25 -- There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

Self Esteem…. Secular Humanism… ---
Make him or her a little Buddha.

Proverbs 29:17 Correct thy son, and he shall give thee rest; yea, he shall give delight unto thy soul. Most parents today are on the verge of a Breakdown… because they won't do with their kids what God says to do…

Proverbs 19:18 -- Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying. Raising Babies is not for Babies…

Ridelin…. Drug you kids up….

They didn't have that when I was young… they just whipped me… Fear kept me straight.. Prov. 1:7


Proverbs 13:24 He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.

Proverbs 22:15 Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.

Proverbs 23:13 Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.

Proverbs 23:14 Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.

Proverbs 29:15 The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.

II. A Way of Running a Church

Proverbs 16:25 -- There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.

Who did God set to lead the Church in the Wilderness?

Acts 7:37 This is that Moses, which said unto the children of Israel, A prophet shall the Lord your God raise up unto you of your brethren, like unto me; him shall ye hear.
38 This is he, that was in the church in the wilderness with the angel which spake to him in the mount Sinai, and with our fathers: who received the lively oracles to give unto us:
39 To whom our fathers would not obey, but thrust him from them, and in their hearts turned back again into Egypt,
40 Saying unto Aaron, Make us gods to go before us: for as for this Moses, which brought us out of the land of Egypt, we wot not what is become of him.


Men have always had their own ideas… I wonder whose idea it was to send spies into the PROMISED LAND?
AND WALK BY SIGHT AND NOT BY FAITH? WHAT HAPPENED WHEN THEY HAD WALKED BY SIGHT AND NOT BY FAITH? THEY MESSED UP!


God gave Mosses a Charge! He told them to lead his People out…. And then to lead them into the Promised land… He lead them by the Pillar of fire and by the cloud… What more did they need but that?

If you want a new preacher, pray for me! God will make me new. And he'll make you new. Amen. Let's let God be in charge, let's seek his will as a church… let's follow his will his way. The average church is run by a board, and shame

It would a lot easier in a lot of ways to Church turn my charge over to a committee but that wouldn't be right with God!


Ezekiel 44:8 And ye have not kept the charge of mine holy things: but ye have set keepers of my charge in my sanctuary for yourselves.

Churches are in a vicious circle…

Ezekiel 34:2 Son of man, prophesy against the shepherds of Israel, prophesy, and say unto them, Thus saith the Lord GOD unto the shepherds; Woe be to the shepherds of Israel that do feed themselves! should not the shepherds feed the flocks?
3 Ye eat the fat, and ye clothe you with the wool, ye kill them that are fed: but ye feed not the flock.

Bishop and Deacon thoughts….

You have to spirit filled to serve… any carnal, lost business man can spend money… now come and fix what's broken, come and win the lost, live right and be an example of the believers, come and pray with the preacher…. If that's what a deacon is most are so interested…


Acts 20:28 Take heed therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock, over the which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, (word oversee is the word Bishop) to feed the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood.

1 Peter 5:2 Feed the flock of God which is among you, taking the oversight thereof, not by constraint, but willingly; not for filthy lucre, but of a ready mind;

Search the Scriptures…



There is nothing wrong with seeking counsel, nothing wrong with getting advice… but the majority was usually wrong! We like to walk by sight, we like to be lead by sight, we need to learn to pray and seek the face of ALMIGHTY GOD AND BE LEAD OF THE SPIRIT OF GOD! Amen.

III. A Way of Relaxing

Text: Proverbs 16:25 -- There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.


We're getting awful close to the summer…. Folks every one needs a day rest…. It's good… God rested on the 7th day. The Sabbath day was given as a day of Rest…. But what were they to do on the Sabbath day? Worship God! Serve God…

True rest comes from serving God?
Absolutely…. He is the source..

Is. 40:31 But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.


I don't think there is anything in the world more beautiful than the Ocean! Oh, but I'm going to tell you going to a beach and looking at girls in their bikini's and boys with their shirts off will not relax you… it'll fill your head with lust, and it'll make you crazy! When Lust hath conceived it bringeth forth DEATH!


Here is what we need to do if we want to relax


Job 17:9 The righteous also shall hold on his way, and he that hath clean hands shall be stronger and stronger.


Are you weak, are you tired… well you can take a weak or two off on God or you do what God said to do… Cry out to God, have a sweet hour of prayer…. See if he'll strengthen You!


Psalms 138:3 In the day when I cried thou answeredst me, and strengthenedst me with strength in my soul.


We are going to be tired… we are going to be worn out… but the way of Relaxing and Refreshing is found in the Word of God… not with man! When we are tired and worn and we trust God that's when God's power is going to be manifest… laying out of Church, and laying aside the things of God and running to lake or the Mt.'s is not how to get Refreshed!


2 Corinthians 12:9 And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.





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